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Oct 12, 2023 20:32:08 GMT
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 12, 2023 20:32:08 GMT
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I mean, probably. Do I have a right to be? No. Which is so annoyinggg.
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Oct 12, 2023 20:43:15 GMT
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 12, 2023 20:43:15 GMT
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It’s hard given your history! And you see each other non exclusively right? I would lose my mind. |
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Oct 12, 2023 20:54:39 GMT
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 12, 2023 20:54:39 GMT
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Yeah, when we “got back together” in the city it’s never been as serious as we were in school. But the same kind of feelings are still around so it’s all weird.
Half the time I just wait for the other shoe to drop, too. Like I won’t outright say “let’s get back together right now” but at the same time he could find someone else, y’know? And she’s like a perfect someone else.
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Oct 12, 2023 21:00:54 GMT
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 12, 2023 21:00:54 GMT
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Gosh, RoRo, that’s so hard. Have you thought about not hooking up anymore? Not saying you should but taking a break if it’s too hard on you?
Also, I know Georgie is gorgeous and everything on paper but she’ll never be you to him! |
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Oct 12, 2023 21:20:50 GMT
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 12, 2023 21:20:50 GMT
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This is bad because it’s just like, so easy being with him still. It’s just remembering every once in a while that I’m not the only one that sucks, even if we made that choice.
We’re kind of apples and oranges, but I know his family loves apples.
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 12, 2023 22:20:03 GMT
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Is it like a 'I want him any way I can have him and this way will do for now?' type of thing? Have you been hooking up with others?
Yeah but they loved you too. |
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Oct 13, 2023 4:30:26 GMT
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 13, 2023 4:30:26 GMT
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Kind of? It’s like we know it works and we like each other but neither of us want to commit to anything serious right now thing. And yes, I have. So has he.
Them liking me and me being a good fit are unfortunately a little different.
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 13, 2023 11:51:45 GMT
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If it works, it works!! Do you feel like when you both want something serious you'll get back together?
Ugh thats just so old school, old money and I hate that. |
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 13, 2023 14:32:47 GMT
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I'd like to think so, I mean we've talked about getting married before but that's where my worries come in, things could change. For him, or for me too I guess.
Haha it is what it is. I'm happy to know you all and be your friends but it's a world I didn't grow up in.
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Oct 13, 2023 20:46:54 GMT
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 13, 2023 20:46:54 GMT
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Woah you’ve even still talked about the M word??? I think that’s a good sign then? But also would drive me nuts too. The thoughts of you want to marry me but don’t want anything serious now? I get all of your concerns! It’s hard.
I get it. It’s a weird lifestyle to come in to, honestly. Would you be able to handle that too? |
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Oct 13, 2023 23:29:00 GMT
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 13, 2023 23:29:00 GMT
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It wasn’t some long drawn out plan, just part of a conversation, but yeah. It’s complicated!
Ask me that years ago and I would have said no. Now I think so, yeah. I’m a little more stable in my own security and just got over the awkwardness over time. But he’s also the only guy heir for that part of the family, so. Another fun factor.
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Oct 14, 2023 19:43:36 GMT
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 14, 2023 19:43:36 GMT
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Sounds very complicated. Tell me about these other guys you’re seeing?
I definitely see you in that role too. You’re more confident. Plus, think of all the fun parties you’d host. Oh? I guess I didn’t think about that? Has he ever talked about the pressure of being the heir and marrying someone in that same “class”? I mean if he’s talked about marrying you, I’d say you have nothing to fear! |
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 14, 2023 20:59:53 GMT
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One plays for the Rangers, the other's a lawyer. So if you ever want to go to a hockey game!
I didn't either for a while - he hasn't directly, but I know it kind of lingers there. Even if he has, doesn't mean it's all a done deal! We're not even dating! Life changes every day, you never know until you know. What about you, are you seeing anyone fun?
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Oct 15, 2023 12:47:22 GMT
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Post by nora rothchild on Oct 15, 2023 12:47:22 GMT
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I am SO in for a hockey game!!
True. And were so young! Still a lot to live before getting married, etc. All the serious things. So I met this lawyer three-ish months ago and we’ve had been seeing each other. But our schedules weren’t working out! The last date I went on was with Freddie so I need to change that asap. Horrible to think about!! |
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 15, 2023 21:45:27 GMT
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Alright, time to focus on you now! Enough of my boy problems, if Freddie is the last date you went on then we need to change this immediately.
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