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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:08:22 GMT
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They'll orbit the same one sometimes, but yes. Very different people. I'm still trying to get my head around Aisha having a baby.
Try harder. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:13:13 GMT
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I've got one last confession... the baby is mine.
My turn for an honest question. If you were Lottie's friend, not mine, what advice would you be giving her?
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:25:32 GMT
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Oh man, you're a dead man walking.
With or without the information I currently have?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:27:48 GMT
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Hahahaha, imagine. You know who my number 1 candidate is.
With. And without, actually.
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:35:24 GMT
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Simone's friend, apparently.
With? End it, move on. Some more choice words, I'm sure.
Without? I'd be asking her what point it's going to get to before she realizes that it's work or her relationship, and we all know what she'd want to choose. I'd ask why she's still holding on if she's unwilling to make the effort, or if she doesn't seem happy.
I don't really know her well enough to make some of those calls, but.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:39:11 GMT
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Ouch. Ouch x 3.
But no, you hit the nail on the head all round. Thanks.
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:41:27 GMT
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You said be honest. Like you said though, your relationship. I just...cheating is hurtful. Cheating with feelings behind it hurts a lot more.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:44:39 GMT
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No I appreciate it. Yeah, I know, I know. I don't have feelings feelings, I don't think... I just think she's a nice girl.
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:49:22 GMT
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You don't jeopardize a long term, long distance, iloveyou relationship for a nice girl, Osc.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:55:15 GMT
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We've never actually said I love you to each other. That's bad isn't it?
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 22:56:05 GMT
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Did/do you love her?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 22:56:38 GMT
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I think so.
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 23:01:47 GMT
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After all this time, and space apart, and missing her...if that's your answer, then that's maybe an answer in itself.
I could tell a stranger I loved Tate, if someone asked.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2021 23:07:06 GMT
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I'm not as emotionally mature as you, RoRo. Exhibit A: that phone call.
Hey, when things open up why don't you come stay for a week? We've got a spare room, we can wallow together. Surely you're owed some PTO!
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Post by rosie de la cruz on Oct 8, 2021 23:18:07 GMT
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Hey, that was emotionally mature of you. You told me your true feelings! Just..very slurred and somewhat unintelligible.
That sounds really nice, but I...don't think that's the best idea, in the long run.
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