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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 17:10:31 GMT
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Nothing, nothing. I just...
It was a bad weekend. And truthfully no, I don't have it figured out yet. I know that Ravi isn't the love of my life but I still care for him, it's one of the harder, more complicated parts.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 17:17:53 GMT
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I'm sorry I've been making this about me.
Yeah I know. I wish he was an asshole, it would make things easier. Even I don't hate him. Are you happy? Does he ask you that?
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 17:32:23 GMT
Sami
You're allowed to need or want things too, of course you are. Sorry I just...exploded.
He's a nice person, and a good friend. But no - I think we both know we're tiptoeing around some bigger conversations. Even this weekend I could feel it, but not like we could exactly just hash it out then.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 17:39:00 GMT
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It's ok. You've probably been holding a lot in all weekend. Nobody botherin to ask about you.
Who was it who planned this? Didn't seem like your mom.
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 18:22:30 GMT
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His family. I think my mom saw the panic, she kept checking in on me.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 18:32:46 GMT
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Is she nice to you, you get along?
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 18:51:06 GMT
Sami
I said my mom, not his. But yeah, she's good too. They all are, it's...I can't even say unfortunate.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 19:07:34 GMT
Aaron
I'll blame the dyslexia. Or my eyes are goin bad too.
They're just trying to get you moving I guess.
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 19:26:27 GMT
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I asked Ravi if he had anything to do with it and he said no, so. Full outsider interference.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 19:45:01 GMT
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Does it mean anything to you that he doesn't try to move things forward either?
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 20:15:05 GMT
Sami
He's not the pushy type, but I think about it sometimes too. In the beginning it really was a hectic schedule between work and trying to figure out our lives. Now...I think it's just the easy excuse.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 20:28:58 GMT
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He'd be an idiot not to want to marry you. I'm sure he's just willing to wait too.
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Post by samira deol on Sept 24, 2024 21:03:37 GMT
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I guess so. I'll need to ask him, one day.
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Post by aaron eklund on Sept 24, 2024 21:19:30 GMT
Aaron
It's a two-way street.
I don't take that all lightly, by the way. Everything this entails for you. I hate not being able to help, I really do.
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Post by samira deol on Sept 25, 2024 3:13:22 GMT
Sami
I know you do, truly. You're being really respectful about all of this and it's hard when I don't know what to give to each person.
I'm used to fixing things, at work. Not trying to dismantle them.
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